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Ideally people say that woman gets an older couple. At least a year older to be a cuddle leader. But the rule seems to be out of date in modern times.

Age no longer guarantees one's maturity. Women do not have to be an inferior party in touch. That's why more and more women are getting younger couples. Even a lot younger too little. Relationship that exists was quite normal and healthy. Not as expected by most people.

What is the reason women choose a younger spouse? Here are some possible logical reasons, quoted from Boldsky.

Lack of choice from the same or older age

This is why the most common reason why older women are looking for younger men. Lack of choice at their age, making women look for men in public and often produce good relationships.

The woman likes to be dominant

Being older, some women choose to assume a responsibility when they are in contact with younger men. An older woman will have a lot of experience about relationships that make her feel better able to solve problems.

Want to 'catch' the young spirit of the husband

Women will feel younger when a relationship with a man who was under his age. They feel the young version of themselves back to life and experience it again. The presence of the young man in his life keeps the woman's life updated with the latest trends in life.

Want to have a more satisfying sexual life

An older woman may be confident of entering into an intimate relationship with a younger man. They know how to make sex more fun and basically they imagine the young man will have a high spirit in the affairs of the bed.

The young man is more mature than he is

In some cases, older women actually show lower maturity levels than their partners. Women like this usually feel incompatible with older men because they feel treated like children. While younger men will make them feel more worthy, because it has a more mature carrying without a patronizing attitude.

Those are some possible reasons women choose younger men as husbands.

The one you love most suddenly said the words broke up. Statements like these may feel like lightning in broad daylight. Shocking and painful to hear. You really are not ready to hear such a request, much less to grant it.

So what to do if he asks to break up? Here are some tips that you can consider to do.

Do not rush to obey

Not infrequently the request broke out from the lips couples when he was emotion. Especially if you're in the middle of a fight. You also do not burn emotion and immediately obey if you do not want to regret.

As much as possible do not decide anything when you're emotional. Ask him to rethink his words. The point is not to get involved with emotions and make decisions that are not thought through.

Ask the reason and invite to find a solution together

If you are not arguing then it is not possible he suddenly ask for a break for no reason. Maybe this had been on his mind for a long time. Ask the reason, find the root of the problem, and most importantly invite him to find a solution together.

The breaking request often does not mean that the price is dead. It can still change as long as the conditions that make it break apart also change for the better.

Try to keep a cool head until the solution is found

An attempt to reconcile between the troubled parties will be accompanied by arguments and persuasion. The process is very tiring and draining of energy, but all done for the common good. So keep your patience and make sure your head is always cold.

Keep the agreed changes, not just sweet promises

If you have tried to think about the problems faced together and come to a solution that aims to improve relationships, run the solution seriously.

Solutions that have been searched together must be run by both parties. Do not just promise sweet to make it change the decision. If you do not keep it, you'll be right back to the same situation.

Prepare for the worst

There are times when efforts to make up for fail completely. He still insisted on breaking up. To face this possibility you also have to prepare mentally. If it's stuck, try to accept it dashingly. Do not beg, do not threaten just to delay his departure.

You are also entitled to find someone who will defend you and be willing to be defended by you. So do not push yourself for someone who has been determined to leave.

That's a few things you should do if he asks to break up. Ultimately such a problem will only be one phase in life. An important phase indeed, but it will surely pass, whether it be with a relief solution or a hard decision to try to diikhlaskan.

TWICE baru sahaja selesai dengan lagu baru mereka iaitu What is Love? Lagu baru ini telah mencecah rekod 12 juta views dalam 24 jam sahaja

Peminat TWICE berasa sangat kagum dengan mereka, sungguh bersemangat dan tertanya kenapa mereka kelihatan sangat flawless.

TWICE sangat terkenal sebagai kumpulan yang semuanya berwajah jelita. Jadi bagaimana mereka menjaga kecantikan mereka? Ini tips dari 3 ahli kumpulan TWICE, Son Chaeyong, Im Nayeon dan Chou Tzuyu.

1 - 5 Langkah pembersihan

Wajah yang bermake up dibersihkan dengan face wipes, kemudian dibersihkan lagi wajah dengan menggunakan cream cleanser dan cleansing oil

Ketika menggunakan cleansing oil, lakukan sapuan ringan untuk membersihkan sisa kotoran dan ianya akan melancarkan peredaran darah. Dan akhiri dengan foam cleanser

2 - Sheet mask + rubber face mask

Setelah wajah dibersihkan, gunakan sheet mask untuk melembabkan dan menyenangkan kulit yang lelah. Chaeyong memilih untuk usap sedikit essence dari sheet mask terlebih dahulu sebelum tempelkannya pada masker. Setelah itu shee mask dibiarkan sampai mengering

Sementara Tzuyu lebih suka memakai dua jenis masker untuk merawat kulitnya. Setelah memakai sheet mask biasa, Tzuyu menggunakan rubber face mask. Rupanya Tzuyu ingin memperoleh manfaat yang banyak dari beberapa produk sekaligus. Dengan demikian kulitnya mendapat kelembapan extra dan akan ternutrisi dengan baik.

Pemakaian dua masker wajah disebut dengan istilah double masking atau mask layering. Teknik perawatan kecantikan ini dilakukan oleh sejumlah pakar kecantikan.

3 - Lip balm sebelum tidur

Nayeon suka menggunakan lip balm sebelum tidur. Produk kegemarannya ialah Lucas Papaw Ointment pemberian salah satu peminatnya.

"Ini adalah produk bibir terbaik yang pernah ada," Nayeon berkata. "Bibir saya sehat dan lembap akhir-akhir ini."

Nayeon mensyorkan untuk sapu lip balm sebelum tidur. "Bibirmu akan sempurna keesokan paginya," tambahnya.

4 - Krim malam + krim mata + pemijatan area V-line

Nayeon sapu krim malam pada wajahnya sebelum tidur. Dia juga menggunakan krim mata untuk  lingkaran bawah mata. Setelah itu diakhiri dengan massage di sepanjang garis rahang agar wajah sentiasa terus dan tidak muram.

5 - Gunakan lipstick base untuk bibir mekar sempurna

Tzuyu biasa memakai dahulu lipstick base sebelum sapu lipstik warna kegemarannya. Tzuyu menggunakan lipstik dengan warna lebih terang sebagai base. Tetapi kesan yang sama juga boleh dilakukan dengan menyapu lip concealer atau lip tint balm. Dengan begitu lipstik yang dipakai sebagai sentuhan akhir akan terlihat lebih natural dan tahan lama.

6 - BB cream untuk sempurnakan perhiasan pada bibir

Untuk merapikan lipstik yang rumit di sepanjang garis bibir, Tzuyu mencadangkan liputan dari BB cream. Lebih bagus lagi jika menggunakan stick concealer.

Itulah beberapa tips kecantikan dari para member TWICE.

Sumber: Allure, Kpopmap, Elegant Daily Life (M-Net) [tsr]

adsblog.adslah.com -  The feeling of possessing a possessive alias against a partner sometimes makes a person so easy to think negatively. Fear the boyfriend glanced at another woman. Wondering if he's saturated with him. Anyway everything is overthinking.

Here are some reasons why you should stop overthinking in a relationship, quoted from Boldsky (3/4).

It could be the beginning of a fight
How can it not be a fight if a few late telephones have been accused of not paying attention? Alpa just once said no respect. Most impatient boyfriend will be tired and get too bleeding.

Kill the essence of love
Too many negative thoughts can kill the essence of love because you keep thinking about all the reasons why and how he fell in love with you. If you already like this you just forget the most important thing, the fact that he loves you.

Similarly when you think about the problem excessively. Not immediately sought the solution, but instead diubek-ubek reasons and the root of the problem only. Going through a relationship this way will make you and your partner feel like they're climbing a steep hill all the time. Tired, right?

Make you constantly feel insecure
Overthinking makes you worry every time. Everything he does for you has to be questioned. Slowly you turn into a paranoid partner, until you feel the need for stalking and wearing the required report all.

Eliminates mutual trust
Trust becomes the door of happiness in relationships. If you think too much in relationships, trust will be the last priority. Trusting is a key component of a relationship and thinking too much makes relationships more vulnerable.

So forget how to be grateful
All the things in your head will make you always find mistakes in the couple and the relationship that you live. It's like a couple never do things right. Though he must have done a lot for you. But you forget how to thank him for overthinking merely.

Make sad for no reason
Overthinking makes you unhappy in relationships. You become more easily sad and worried relationships for no reason. Finally you just feel more stressed than when you do not have a partner.

Make a couple does not feel at home
If the cyclic caused by overthinking you have been piled up and protracted, just wait for the explosion. If frustrated the boyfriend has reached the point of saturation, you may be left. Finally, the unprovoked suspicions that you've been holding up for this long and your own make it happen.

Those are the reasons why you should stop overthinking in a relationship. Falling in love is a wonderful feeling. So as much as possible get rid of overthinking attitude and enjoy every moment.